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Attraction works like this – the second you see a person, you are creating a picture of him/her in your mind based on a number of factors like looks,body language, personality,things that person does,status,background, etc etc etc and EXTRAPOLATE that it into what they are and  how you will be dealing with them.  Aggressive, outgoing, animalistic, bold,childish traits in a persons outlook extrapolates into being naughty,playful, fun..do whatever one pleases attitude and ready to be bad and seek pleasure.. and ultimately more sexualy stimulating / fun having. Traits such as conservativeness,maturity,disciplined,decent,less aggressive ..extrapolates into being  not very natural,childish  and consequently not aggressive enough to pursue pleasure and hence less fun. I mean you always reciprocate what you see in the other person and if you categorise him/her in the first way you also try to be more engaging with them, but if yo categorise them the later way you tend to be more conservative with them.

So many people will go for naturally childish/immature ones rather than mature and serious thinkers, and we tend to associate Childish, neotenous look and features with attraction and tend to VALUE it more than a mature outlook. So its complicated here…we value neoteny(light headedness and less thought) but intelligence(usually associated with maturity) can also be stimulating only if it is more stimulating/engaging in a fun way

Sun is the single biggest enemy of skin tone,muscles and neotenous features.Hot climatic conditions also doesnt favour healthy eating habits as one has to have food in moderation in such places. A high fish diet helps high collagen content plus the vitamins, proteins and essential fat intake are necessary.

Thinking too much(including being too nice and thinking serious stuff) is usually associated with stress or complicated lifestyle. However, psychological neoteny including playfulness,wide eyedness and taking things easy and being happier are the ultimae turn on in sexual selection. It doesnt just end with fair skin and healthy body.

Although we associate intellectual neoteny with childish/immature/not too much of thinking type of people and
people who do think too are not associated with sexyness(vidya balan, trisha)..raima and many big eyed bengali girls are a proof that one does not have to think less to be considered playful and sexy. The more thinking capacity can be channeled into more playfulness and sensuality.
The society has to play its part in celebrating feminine and playful qualities rather than curbing these feelings in the nature of maturity and cultural conservativeness.

I have dealt with this topic in much much details in my videos/vlogs and other blogs..but let me try to briefly.. here.
Living in a hot climate has given southies dry,damaged, stretched out, thick,skin, and saggy and non-flatter facial features.A loss of collagen, saggy muscles and improper physical frame because of the inhibition of vitamin D by melanin and lower synthesis of youth hormones such as oestrogen which shapes ones thinking/voice/body chemistry, loss of essential supply of nutrients to blood and organs via dehydration and sweating and hence not so great organs such as eyes( studies indicated northies have a better eyes than southies). Many such anti-neotenous factors influencing us for over 1000s of years because of living in this generally hotter geography and thereby contributing permanent changes to the molecular leisons..known as genetic change,as well as the physical features/lack of neoteny contributing to lack of intellectual neoteny and a more mature,dullish thinking compared to the north.
North india, has a good variation of hot and cold climate which is good for muscle/skin biology..making muscles firmer, faces flatter, good body chemistry and hence nice neotenous features…Physical neoteny enforcing intellectual neoteny..which has its influence on how they think and their culture and having this neotenous mindset of a 10 year old also making their faces cuter while the mature attitude and behaviour making the faces of southies..a bit mature and not playful or flirty or anything.

One cannot claim that physical neoteny will not have any effect on the intellectual neoteny of people. A society,  of group of people where its people have a lot of neotenous features will feel and act more neotenous and thereby making the culture of the group more neotenous, and the neotenous culture(with more singing,dancing, liberal attitude, forth coming and aggressiveness) will also shape and re-inforce neoteny in the physical looks and the faces of its people.

So even a smaller percentage of physical  differences can sometime lead to a lot of differences..for example a society where there are 60% physically neotenous people-their culture is mainly going to be neotenous. Whereas a society where 60% of its people have mature physical traits and 40% noetenous traits..here the culture of the society will tend to be more mature. And if the culture is mature, the later generations will be more mature and if the culture is neotenous, the later generations will be more neotenous.

Studies show that humans evolve to become more neotenous and since india has been a more evolved/adavanced society for a long time..Indians r intellectually more neotenous compared to the rest. Within India, south indians by choice have adopted a mature culture.By Living in a place where there is good climate, and in a society where people are able to behave neotenously, Souties/Tamils can too develop the skin tone, neotenous features and the intellectul neoteny as we are intelligent as well.

We just have to hope that we get out skills right , work hard, emigrate to places where there is good climate and resources and consume healthy food and eventually we will become healthier, have happy lives an become attractive. So the next generation of parents should not encourage their kids not just to become doctors or engineers(because previously we thought only this will make ones life better) but ask them to be succesful in emigrating to places where theres good climate,resources and where the culture is more neotenous..like north india and other parts of the world. The longer you stagnate here in south, others are gonna come in and dominatee us, so we have to expand.

Tamils are known to be intelligent and I have explained in my other blogs as to why I think so. I have also explained in my other blogs why being attractive/fun and sexy are needed to be considered as belonging to the hi-fi/ sophisticated crowd and elite.  A lot of the maloo christians who blatantly ape the western culture and kiss upto everything anti-indian think of themselves as elite curently. John abraham in his shitty movie(shitty for a number of other reasons) vicky donor claimed himself to be the definition of the modern Indian elite.  Little does that prick realise that syrian christians are actually dravidians by established theories and he was thus insulting his own ancestry by certain dialogues in that movie. also he doesnt realise that most of srilankan tamils are  maloo whove adoted tamil and thus him and many of the other maloos are putting themselves down by insulting/running away from srilankan tamils and indian tamils.

Tamils are easily the most intelligent group and that should give us immense confidence to act like we are up there. We should perhaps change our outlook and not just focus on being simplistic and humble and celebrat uncouthness (coz we believe we are dravidian australoids and the opposite of the aryan whites in all aspects and are su-consciously obliged to celebrate uncouthness). The mindless idiots who ape the western culture are now looking down upon us and think they are high and mighty. The point is we should  have a culture/outlook change(dont mean to ape the western culture) from a purely – sexual and fun point of view  and act like we have plenty going on for us. Since we are Intelligent and are able to learn things and become  sophisticated easily.Tamils/cultural south indians can become the Elites of India from all aspects..The major ingredient is good looks and fun outlook, and our intellectual ability(which also helps in being more engaging and attraction) can easily get us ahead of the bengali bhadraloks(mix of chink tribes, chola genes and magadha genes) or the syrian christians(mostly backward caste but from the mountainous kerala) or the high societies of bombay or watever.

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5 Comments

  1. Hi.. Just happened to bump upon ur blog! Nicely written and researched.. 🙂 But the view is totally cloudy! What is the need for some one to be some one else just to impress? What’s the whole point to be playful, have a great eyes and still be dumb on the inside? If South Indians need to flaunt/show off a little bit more, yes. I do agree. But moving to a different location/eating diff foods are all taking things to the extreme!!

    • hmm.. i mean trying to live in a place with good climate, more resource and consuming healthy stuff cant hurt you rite?.. Also there is a distinction between adopting the OTHER thereby losing oneself and adopting a healthy trait that increases our fitness level in the circumstances we live in. For example, if one adopts english and loses one own langauge(for whatever reason) we are adopting what was created by a different group – in this case the english language and therefore by having to adopt english we concede our defeat wrt successfully propogating our language which we created. But if we were to become more stronger/athletic or cuter or trying to become more lighter skinned or any other good physical traits – although someother group may have more of it currently ,these physical triats are not the creation of someone else or the other group, they are just a better trait – biologically speaking
      I think the post – why south indians are not very attractive’ is a more comprehensive explanation. hope you can understand my perspective better from that one

        • Ashwini
        • Posted August 30, 2013 at 7:36 pm
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        of course.. it doesn’t hurt.. but why lose the identify as a whole? if it’s a collective gain.. yes.. but I don’t see if we will acheive anything there.. anyways I really liked the analysis and the perspective you had put forth.. Keep up the good work 🙂

    • I agree with you on changing what defines us, thats why i made newer videos and posts about it . Thanks for the comments

  2. Thanks for considering my opinion.. I liked both the versions.. initial one was more like a research analysis and this sounds more from the heart..


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